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This challenging message is for women who are where I was - struggling in marriage. Trying to fix it - fix him - and seemingly failing while you feel successful in every other area. There is hope. Things can change for you, but it starts with change in you.

The Believing Wife

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5 Controlling Behaviors to Avoid in Marriage


Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you – 1 Peter 5:7 I shared in my newsletter a few weeks ago that I still struggle with some control issues. My husband was laying in bed looking at his phone about an hour and a half before he needed to be at work. […]

This Wasn’t My Plan


And He was withdrawn from them about a stone’s throw, and He knelt down and prayed, saying, “Father, if it is Your will, take this cup away from Me; nevertheless not My will, but Yours, be done.” Then an angel appeared to Him from heaven, strengthening Him. And being in agony, He prayed more earnestly. […]

To the Wife Who Is Tired of Fighting For Her Marriage


Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light – Matthew 11:28-30 […]

Stay Right Even If He is Wrong


Then the men of David said to him, “This is the day of which the Lord said to you, ‘Behold, I will deliver your enemy into your hand, that you may do to him as it seems good to you.’” And David arose and secretly cut off a corner of Saul’s robe. Now it happened […]

Play Your Position!


Turning his head, Peter noticed the disciple Jesus loved following right behind. When Peter noticed him, he asked Jesus, “Master, what’s going to happen to him?” Jesus said, “If I want him to live until I come again, what’s that to you? You—follow me.” -John 21:20-22 God gave us a powerful and encouraging message last […]

A Heart Like His


Then I will give them one heart, and I will put a new spirit within them, and take the stony heart out of their flesh, and give them a heart of flesh -Ezekiel 11:13 I count it a privilege and an honor to share with you each week. I get amazing reports of how the […]

Enjoy Your Life While You Wait!


Why do we wait until we accomplish a goal or reach a milestone to celebrate? Sis, you can enjoy yourself while you wait! You can live a full life while you have weight goals, marriage goals, and financial goals.

Is This Relationship Mutually Beneficial?


And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” -Genesis 2:18 I love being married, and I love what marriage entails, but it has taken me years to begin to understand my role in marriage. It’s not just cooking and cleaning […]

No More Unnecessary Battles


Therefore I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as one who beats the air – 1 Corinthians 9:26 I’ve made my mind up. I am no longer going to fight unnecessary battles. Nope. Done. No more. I am going to save my energy for the ones that are necessary (because there are […]

I’ve Got Some Scars


always carrying about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our body – 2 Corinthians 4:10 When I was around 12 or 13, my brother hit me in the eye with a rock. I saw the rock coming, but I couldn’t move out of […]