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Your marriage is
hurting & you're tired.
I'm here to help.
Let me tell you how I know.
Let me tell you how I know.
You’ve gone from smiling ear to ear at the altar to crying yourself to sleep at night.
You couldn’t foresee how difficult it would be to “live happily ever after.”
You’re past the honeymoon phase & smack dab in the middle of children, errands, bills, IN-LAWS (need I say anymore?) and you’re wondering:
You’ve gone from smiling ear to ear at the altar to crying yourself to sleep at night.
You couldn’t foresee how difficult it would be to “live happily ever after.”
You’re past the honeymoon phase & smack dab in the middle of children, errands, bills, IN-LAWS (need I say anymore?) and you’re wondering:
“Am I the Only One?”
"How did we get here?"
"Are we gonna make it?"
"Will he ever change?"
No, you’re not the only one…
...And you CAN overcome this.
Let me tell you how I know.
You’re not the only one who struggles in her marriage. There were nights that I seriously contemplated smothering my husband with a pillow, while he slept soundly as if nothing was wrong. (Sound familiar?) 😏
Of course, I’m joking but let’s be real. It’s easy to become frustrated when your efforts to improve marriage feel one-sided.
But when I took my focus off of the things I couldn’t change–my husband, his attitudes, his inability to throw his clothes in the hamper (you get my drift)–God began working in me.
Letting God change us is integral to Him changing our marriage. When He changes our hearts, we can see things as they really are. This new perspective enables us to stop keeping score, and start loving our husbands UNCONDITIONALLY–just like Jesus.
This kinda love isn’t easy but, with Jesus’s help, you can learn to love this way too!
I help wives overwhelmed with marital disappointments discover resilient joy in challenging marriages.
Hey, I’m
Debra Cheek.
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This challenging message is for women who are where I was - struggling in marriage. Trying to fix it - fix him - and seemingly failing while you feel successful in every other area. There is hope. Things can change for you, but it starts with change in you.
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Episode 01: Overcome Fear & Embrace Your Purpose
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